The first time I was in Cambodia, in 2005, I disliked it intensely. It was the end of the dry season and the land was parched and brown, as if nothing had ever lived there. My friend Martha and I stayed in a fancy tourist hotel and went outside the resort only to visit the famous temples of Angkor Wat. The heat was so intense, and the beggars & cripples in the streets so aggressive, it sapped my interest in seeing the countryside or meeting the people. Despite the wonders of the temples, it was an unpleasant experience overall, and I never wanted to go back.
Pretty much my tourista view of Cambodia, the first time.
However, when I went to Cambodia with Heifer last year, it was an entirely different experience. (And this is why you should never hold on to prejudices about countries you’ve only visited briefly — or in an utterly touristy fashion.)
For starters, I met the people I really wanted to get to know.And then there was the fact that everything – and I mean EVERY single living thing– in the countryside was bathed in green. And water. Cambodia is geographically shaped like a bowl, so in the rainy season, water collects in the center and seeps out everywhere. The rice paddies were swollen with their watery harvest…
…and children everywhere along the road were splashing happily and joyfully in the ubiquitous ponds.I got to really talk to the people I met in the villages, and understand some of their tragic history on a deeply personal level.
Pream Sui, survivor of a forced marriage to a Khmer Rouge soldier – and beautiful grandmother.
I saw the work Heifer was doing to mend communities, bring people together to work alongside each other, and heal ancient rivalries with the amazing gift of animals .
A flock of guinea fowl.
And I came to adore Heifer’s country director, Keo Keang, who traveled with me every day to the villages and towns where Heifer works – and had her own horrific tale of tragedy from the Khmer Rouge days, when her father and sister were murdered.
Despite the severe difficulties this country faces in overcoming its genocidal past, poverty-ridden present, and dubious future, I met so many people filled with a gorgeous spirit of optimism and hope.
Kuhl Samon, mother of 11, and wife of Chin Chhil, an amputee in the Khmer Rouge civil war.
And believe me when I tell you, nothing can make you love a country more than that.For a look back at my Cambodia posts (and they’re really GOOD!) ..